Eulogy to my dearly departed Father on 21 Dec 2010 . We love you Papak..

Good afternoon
Father Simon Poh,Dato ,my mum relative and friends

I Wenceslas Tan am here today representing my mum, 4 brothers and sister in laws (Christopher and Doreen, )  my wife Rosalind ,Ivan,Victor and Phylis, my one n only sister, Jannie,  ,John and  Sui yeen,  and my 3 nephews and 6 nieces.
My father , A truly kind and loving and  a very compassionate man
He gave us love courage and strength.
He showed us love by loving his mother dearly, our  gradma and my mum and all of us very much. My mom is always and will be forever  the love of his life.He loves us too, there'd was incident,he use to come back to Kuching when he was working in Bau in the 60's during a big flood he swim across streches of water through rubber  garden and spend a night in a malay  house  and walked until he was in  Kuching just to be with us.Their  commitment to one another is a true example of a loving family   Through hardship and joy hn bringing up all the children to be good people.
His love for us is gentle  and sweet.
At  times he is stern and strict,all these is because he knows what is best .
He brought adventures to our life by bringing us to various town where he had worked in public works department (JKR), Serian in the early sixties ,building the serian Sri Aman ,and also Bau.then in the 70's , to Gedong . whenever  I think of my childhood ,which I think my brother and I Sister would agree , was  fun,adventurous and instilled in us the love for nature and had the opportunity to meet other people  while  building these roads and bridges
Our strong family bond , respecting each other, a family , that stays  together is not an easy  task as building road n bridges.  He showed love,  kindness and compassion.
He showed us how to live a good Christian life,he would wake up early in the morning 3am ,light up the candle and read the bible and prayed daily. ,there was an instance when he suffered a second stroke and completely confined to wheel chair,during a divine mercy Sunday three years ago ,the lord spoke to him  you can wak now, he woke up and from that day onward he can walk.
He is a very hardworking man and my mum will always tell us
"dad is working overtime today"
He instilled in us that altitude and culture to work hard and live honestly.Born  11 may 1929, dad had a difficult childhood. Our grandad passed away when my papak was five years old. But the good Lord blessed him . He worked hard and we all grew up , having the best what dad and mom can provide for us.
he passed away peacefully on the 19 December  2010 at the age of 81.
His last few days was very difficult but he showed courage.
His last words to my mum
" that he is truly blessed
He  was happy and is very grateful for caring for him all these years, That he knows she love him very much."
Let me end my this short speech
It is by saying,  we love our papak very much , growing up is about his heart,
and getting very close to him , that kept the family together and our thought of him will always make us think about all the meaningful things in life and also in knowing and loving God more. What you see now, all of his children respecting, loving and supporting one another, is the result of our dad.
I read this , from lance, a favorite boy whom my dad and mum love very much.
Lance is 12 years old today. My mom looked after him when he was one month old. We grew very fond to him,lance we love you too.
Thank you all for your presence, support and prayers during this time of loss.

Beautiful Shanghai

It's getting colder by the day in China and after the freezing cold in Beijing it was welcoming to be in sunny Shanghai with a more beareable temperature of about 12 deg Celcius. Went straight to The Bund and it was indeed a lovely sight, more pictures coming but these by the iPhone.